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Study Guide 5 (H4)
Habit 4 PSY 1300
Question | Answer |
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What are the Five Paradigms of human interaction? | Win-Lose, Lose-Win, Lose-Lose, Win, Win-Win or no deal. |
What is Scarcity Mentality? | The belief that the world is a pie and there is only so much of it to go around. |
What is Abundance Mentality? | The belief that there is plenty to go around for everyone. |
How do the people with Scarcity Mentality base their self-worth ? | How they stack-up to others. |
What is a good way to describe Lose-Win? | You’re eager to please, but reluctant to stand up for yourself. |
What is a good way to describe Lose-Lose? | You don’t care if other people lose, nor do you have the courage to stand up for yourself. |
What is a good way to describe Win-Lose? | You’re bold but cold-unsympathetic, inconsiderate, and unkind. |
What is a good way to describe Win-Win or No Deal? | You’re ready to walk away before someone loses-including yourself. |
What does going for a Win-Win or No Deal show? | Going for a Win-Win is a sign of toughness and wisdom, not weakness. |
How do most people with a Scarcity Mentality view others success? | People with a Scarcity Mentality are threatened by other people’s successes. |
How do most people with a Abundance Mentality view others success? | People with an Abundance Mentality are genuinely happy for the accomplishments and successes of others. |
What type of language do people with a Scarcity Mentality use? | People with the Scarcity Mentality use “I” language, and want all of the recognition. |
What type of language do people with a Abundance Mentality use? | People with the Abundance Mentality prefer to share recognition and place credit where credit is due. They use “we” language. |
What is a good way to think of relationships? | Think of your relationships like bank accounts, where you can make deposits and withdrawals that are emotional. |