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Habit 4 study guide
COM flashcards for Habit 4
Term | Definition |
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See | It's possible to win in such a way that others can too. |
Do | Balance courage with consideration, Make deposits in other peoples Emotional Bank Accounts. |
Get | More "wins " in life and better relationships. |
Module 11 | Balance Courage and Consideration |
Win-Lose | "I'm going to beat you no matter what" high on courage and low on consideration, you're always trying to get ahead of other or be better. You can't win unless other people lose. I dont need to outrun the bear. I just need to outrun you. |
Lose-Win | "I always get steeped on" Low on courage and high on consideration, you're insecure. Not brave enough to stick up for yourself. A permanent victim mentality. |
Lose-Lose | "If Im going down, you're going down with me" If you can't with, nobody wins. You get revenge Envy and criticize others and put other people down(often yourself too) |
Win-Win or No Deal | "We're going to win together" You go for win-win or no deal. Balancing courage and consideration is the way to help others feel good and for you to feel good too. |
Courage and Consideration Matrix | Win-Lose, Win-Win, Lose-Lose, Lose-Win |