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Habit 4 guide
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Question | Answer |
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How do we win for this habit? | Think win then you win. |
How do you build effective relationships with others? | By working for their benefit as well as my own |
What happens if you put people down to build yourself up? | Think Win-Lose |
What happens if you try to take others down with you? | You both lose |
What if you always have a victim mentality? | You lose and others win |
How do you win? | Win-Win or No Deal |
Where are you if you are high in consideration and low in courage? | Lose-win |
Where are you if you are low in both consideration and courage? | Lose-Lose |
What if you are high in courage but don't consider other people? | Win-Lose, (we won but at what cost?) |
What if you are high in both? | Win-Win or no deal |
What good does being kind to other people do to me? | It creates better and stronger relationships |
What do I do if this takes a lot out of me? | You go it anyway, you never know what an act of kindness will do for that person. |
What good does keeping a promise do? | Shows that you are more trust worthy |
It's just a small action what good does that do? | That small act of kindness hits their emotional bank account in ways that you may never understand |
Who does it hurt if I blurt out everyone's secrets? | The people you are blurting out on, by keeping their confidences you are showing yourself trustworthy |
It's just gossip what harm does that do? | By not participating in gossip and standing up for them you are showing yourself to be a true friend |
Why do I need to clarify? He knows what I mean. | By setting clear expectations you are showing that you are serious and want to complete the task at hand |
Why do I need to apologize? | When you apologize immediately you show that you are aware of their needs and that you care about your relationship with that person |
Why do I need to forgive them? | When you are quick to forgive you show that you don't hurt yourself the way that you were hurt. |