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Habit 4
Habit 4 Flashcards
Term | Definition |
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Win-lose | "I am going to beat you no matter what" |
Lose-win | "I always get stepped on" |
Lose-Lose | "If I am going down, you are going down with me" |
Win-Win | "We're" going to win together |
Consideration and Courage | You want to be high in both courage and consideration. YOu go for win-win or no deal. |
Emotional Bank Accounts (EBA) | The key to making friends is to deposit acts of kindness and helpfulness in their EBA and avoid making withdrawals. |
EBA deposits | *Seek to understand what a deposit/withdrawal for them *show kindness, courtesy and respect *keep promises *Be loyal to the absent *set clear expectations *apologize *forgive |