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Habit 4 Study Guide
Think Win-Win
Term | Definition |
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See | It's possible to win in a way that others win as well. |
Do | Balance courage and consideration. Make deposits into people's EBAs. |
Get | More "wins" in life and better relationships. |
Win-Lose | High on courage and low on consideration. |
Lose-Win | Low on courage and high on consideration. |
Lose-Lose | Low on courage and consideration. |
Win-Win | High on courage and consideration. |
EBA | Emotional Bank Account. |
Think carefully about what is a ___ and what is a ___ for different people. | Deposit, Withdrawal. |
Nothing disrupts the EBA faster than ___ . | Breaking promises. |
Keep confidences. | When someone shares something with you in confidence, keep it that way! |
Set clear expectations. | Be specific with others about your expectations. |
Apologize. | Be the person who apologizes first instead of making things worse. |
Forgive. | Forgive and forget. Move on so you don't dwell on bad experiences and hold tomorrow hostage. |