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Habit 4 Study Guide
Question | Answer |
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Thinking Win-win | It is the basic principle of success. Unless other people win with you, you don't truly win. |
What is a Win-Lose situation? | When you are high on courage and low on consideration, always trying to get ahead of other people. You can't win unless other people lose. |
What is a Lose-Win situation? | When you are low on courage and high on consideration. You're insecure, or not brave enough to stick up for yourself. |
What is Lose-Lose situation? | When you are low on courage and low on consideration. If you can't win,nobody wins. You envy and criticize others and also yourself. |
What is Win-win situation? | A balance of courage and consideration. Winning or succeeding together as a team. |
What are the two principals of people who think Win-Win or No Deal? | Courage and consideration. |
Emotional Bank Account(EBA) | Treating a friendship or relationship as a bank account. Making deposits or withdrawals can either improve(deposit) or hurt(withdrawal) the relationship. |
What are the different types of EBA deposits? | Do small acts of kindness, keep promises, don't spread confidential information or secrets, don't gossip, set clear expectations, apologize and learn to forgive. |
What are the different types of EBA withdrawals? | Gossiping, holding grudges, breaking a promise and telling someone's secrets. |
The primary rules for making deposits into an EBA? | A deposit is only a deposit if the other person sees it as such. It can take more than one deposit to make up for a withdrawal. |
Effective Students | They balance courage with consideration, are happy for the success of others and make deposits into other's bank accounts. |
Ineffective Students. | They think of "me first", get jealous when others do well and make more withdrawals than deposits. |