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Phycology
Habit 4 (Module 11-12)
Term and Facts and Questions | Information and Answer |
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Win-Lose | "I'm going to beat you no matter what." Win-Lose is that we win only if we beat someone like the saying, "I don't need to outrun the bear. I just need to outrun you". |
Lose-Win | "I always get stepped on." Lose-Win is doing what the other people want and never doing anything you want to do. Just like "One student complained that her boyfriend and she always do what he wants to do". |
Lose-Lose | "If I'm going down, you're going down with me." Lose-Lose is the definition of sore loser, if they can't win then nobody will. |
Win-Win | "We are going to win together." Win-Win helps bring people up and build effective relationships. This were we all need to be to be the best person we can be. |
If you were in Petersen's place how would you have responded? | If I was in Petersen's place I would have been nice to get the running and bring him there but if that runner would have wanted to win the he would have to beat me the right way. |
Would you have received the winner's trophy, or settled for second place? | I would have probably took to trophy because in my first answer I would have got him and if I won the foot race then its mine. |
What a deposit for the other person. | Do small acts of kindness, Keep promises, Keep confidence, Be loyal to the absent, Set clear expectations, Apologize, and Forgive. |
Do small acts of kindness | Just need to show some kindness even if it is at little as "hello" or smiling at someone it could make there day. |
Keep promises | That what you say is meaning full. If you promise someone to play a game and don't show up then that ruined the EBA(emotional bank account). Just keep promises so if you do miss one then they will forgive and still like you. |
Keep confidences | Just keep what you hear in your mind if they just wanted to tell you, because if you do then your trust is gone and most likely you friendship. |
Be loyal to the absent | Be nice even when people aren't listening. Meaning don't talk behind peoples backs and spread roomers. |
Set clear expectations | Tell people what you want specifically like " we all need to read 100 pages by the next time we get together". This is very understanding and gets the job done. |
Apologize | Apologizing could be saying sorry for something you did, and if the person doesn't want to say it to you be like I forgive you. Then they will most likely be willing to say I'm sorry and say why. |
Forgive | Forgiveness is a skill we need to learn better. We can forgive but never forget, whatever happened to you or the other person. |
Withdraws to people | This is just not having a good friend near you and to get out there is only withdraws. |