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Habit 4 Study Guide
Term | Definition |
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Balance Courage and Consideration | Think Win-Win. Working for my benefits along with others can build effective relationships. |
Win-Lose | The act of focusing on beating others rather than doing your best. You can't win unless other people lose. |
Lose-Win | Always looking for sympathy and having a permanent victim mentality. |
Lose-Lose | Criticize and envy others. Often putting others down along with yourself. If you can't win, nobody wins. |
Win-Win or No Deal | We are going to win together. You are ready to walk away before someone loses- including yourself. |
Make Deposits in Other People's Emotional Bank Account's | The key to making new friendships is to deposit acts of kindness and helpfulness into their emotional bank account's |
Find Out What a Deposit Is for the Other Person. | Take others opinions into consideration and find out what is comfortable to them. You have to communicate with them or else you will never know their deposit. |
Do Small Acts of Kindness | Be kind and create connections. Put down your phone and make kind conversation with people. Start introducing yourself to meet new people and opportunities will open up. |
Keep Promises | Be sure to make good on your word before saying "I promise". If the promise is broken there will be no trust and it will make a long time to regain. |
Keep Confidence | Never tell information someone has told you with confidence that you wont tell. This could embarrass them or cause serious trouble. |
Be Loyal to the Absent | Do not gossip. Bad-mouthing or talking about someone to other people will only result in them thinking you are talking bad about them. Speak up and defend anyone who is getting talked about. |
Set Clear Expectations | Always be clear about the thing you need to get done and follow through with what's expected. |
Apologize | Admit if you're wrong. Don't make excuses or wait for the other person to apologize first. It will only result into a bigger withdrawal. |
Forgive | Forgive and forget. Forgive people's and forget because if not, it will only keep hurting you. |