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Habit 4
Think Win-Win
Question | Answer |
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What is Think Win-Win? | It is about building effective relationships with people by working for their benefit while also working for your own. |
Why is Think Win-Win meaningful in life? | It is a principle of living, which means you can't win at life unless other people win, too. |
What is Win-Lose? | It means you are high on courage and low on consideration, this means you can't win unless other people lose. |
What is Lose-Win? | It means you are low on courage and high on consideration, which means you are not brave enough to stick up for yourself. |
What is Lose-Lose | It means that if you can't win, then nobody can win. |
What is Win-Win? | It means you balance courage and consideration, which means you would rather walk away before someone loses. |
What principles do Think Win-Win people live by? | They live by two principles: Courage and Consideration |
High in consideration, but low in courage means? | It means you are eager to please and reluctant to stand up for yourself, therefore you tend to end up in lose-win situations. |
Low in courage and low in consideration means? | It means that you do not care if others lose and you do not have the courage to stand up for yourself. |
Low in consideration and high in courage means? | It means that you are bold but cold, and unsympathetic, and you go for win-lose. You want to be ahead even if you step on others. |
High in courage and high in consideration means? | It means that you walk away before someone loses, including yourself. You go for win-win. |
What is the key to making friends? | The key is to deposit acts of kindness and helpfulness in their Emotional Bank Accounts. |
What is a deposit in a relationship? | When you do something that is helpful to a relationship. |
What is a withdrawal in a relationship? | When you do something that hurts the relationship. |
What is a deposit for the other person? | What you think a deposit is for the other person could be a withdrawal in their mind. |
Why do small acts of kindness? | If you want to make friends then you must be kind and caring to others around you. |
Why keep promises? | If a promise is broken it causes mistrust and hurt to a persons Emotional Bank Account. |
Why keep confidences? | If someone shares something with you in confidence it is best to keep it that way because if the information gets out it could cause humiliation and trouble. |
Why be loyal to the absent? | If you were gossiping behind someone's back to another person, they could start to believe that you are badmouthing them behind their back as well. |
Why is it good to set clear expectations? | If things were left unclear between people then their could be trouble and great confusion. |
Why is it good to apologize? | It is good to apologize because the longer one waits to apologize if they were in the wrong could cause big withdrawals. |
Why should you forgive? | It is best to forgive and forget so that you can stop the hurt that you feel. It is best to let it go so that you may move on. |