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Habit 4
Think Win-Win
Question | Answer |
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What are 5 paradigms of human interaction? | Win-lose, Lose-win, Lose-lose, Win, Win-win or no deal |
What does Win-Lose mean? | Always trying to get ahead of others no matter what |
What does Lose-Win mean? | You are insecure, not brave enough to stick up for yourself |
What does Lose-Lose mean? | If you can not win than nobody can |
What does Win mean? | You always think only about yourself and not others |
What does Win-Win or No Deal mean? | You want everyone to win |
What people do who think Win-Win? | 1.Balance courage with consideration 2.Be happy for the success 3.Share credit and recognition 4.Make deposits in other people's Emotional Bank Accounts |
What are 8 deposits you can make in people's emotional bank Accounts? | 1.Find out what a deposit id for the other people 2.Do small acts of kindness 3.Keep promises 4.Be loyal 5.Set clear expectations 6.Apologize 7.Give feedback 8.Forgive |
What are the payoffs of Win-Win thinking? | 1.More wins 2.Faster, better solutions to problems 3.Richer, more lasting relationships |
What does people see who think Win-Win? | 1.There is plenty for everyone 2.It is possible to win in a way that others win too 3.No one has to lose |
What are 7 active listening skills? | 1.Be attentive 2.Ask open-ended question 3.Ask probing questions 4.Request clarification 5.Paraphrase 6.Be attuned to and reflect feelings 7.Summirize |