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Chapter 4
Chapter 4: Think Win-Win
Term | Definition |
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Win-Lose mentality | High courage, low consideration, always trying to beat others, thinking in terms of "me vs. them." Believing others have to lose for you to win. |
Win-Win mentality | Wanting to lift yourself and others up, helping both yourself and others. |
Lose-Win mentality | Low courage, high consideration, prone to being taken advantage of, victim mentality. Others always win and you always lose. |
Lose-Lose mentality | If you can't win, no one can. Tearing others and yourself down. |
Emotional Bank Account (EBA) "depositing" | Acts of kindness, keep promises, keep confidences, don't gossip, set clear expectations, apologize, forgive |
Emotional Bank Account (EBA) "withdrawing" | Breaking trust, being malicious or mean, gossiping about others, refusing to apologize or forgive |
Consideration | Your consideration of others' situations and feelings, low consideration associated with Win-Lose and Lose-Lose mentality, high associated with Lose-Win and Win-Win. |
Courage | High courage associated with Win-Win and Win-Lose, low courage associated with Lose-Lose and Lose-Win. |