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Habit 4 - StudyGuide
Term | Definition |
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Win-Win | Mutual Benefit |
Win-Lose | High Courage, Low Consideration. Can't win unless others lose. Getting Ahead, Prideful. |
Lose-Win | Low Courage, High Consideration. Permanent Victim Mentality. Not brave enough to Stick up for Yourself. |
Lose-Lose | Non-Beneficial. |
No Deal | Win Together. Either both parties win or you don't. |
Win-Win or No Deal (Matrix) | Top Right. High Courage, High Consideration |
Win-Lose (Matrix) | Top Left. High Courage, Low Consideration |
Lose-Lose | Bottom Left. Low Courage, Low Consideration |
Lose-Win | Bottom Right. Low Courage, High Consideration |
EBA | Emotional Bank Account |
What is a Deposit for Someone's EBA? | Everyone is different, so you must find out what a deposit or withdrawal for someone's EBA is. |
Kinds of Deposits: | Small Acts of Kindness, Keep Promises, Keep Confidences, Loyalty to Absent, Clear Expectations, Apologize, Forgive |
Kinds of Withdrawals: | Disrespect, Break Promises, Spread Misinformation, Exposing Trusted Issues, Not following through, Not Apologizing, Holding a grudge |