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Habit 4 Study Guide
The flashcards for habit 4 Study guide
Term | Definition |
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"Win-Lose" | "I'm going to beat you no matter what" - trying to get ahead of people -High courage/low consideration |
"Lose-Win" | "I always get stepped on" - You're insecure and won't stand up for yourself - Low courage/High consideration |
"Win-Win" / "No Deal" | "We're going to win together" - You're walking away before anyone loses - Balancing courage and consideration |
"Lose-Lose" | -Don't care if other people lose, but don't have the courage tp stand up for yourself |
Deposit | A benefit or positive for a person - Think ATM machine |
Withdrawal | A deficit or negative for a person - Think ATM machine |
Why should you keep promises? | It quickly lowers trust and expectations if not kept. |
Keep Confidences | Keep secrets that a person trusts you with, to seem loyal. |
What does being "loyal to the absent" mean? | Don't gossip or backbite the people that trust you. Don't break their trust to fit in with another crowd. |
Set Clear Expectations. | Don't expect people to immediately understand your boundaries or what you need from them. Communicate. |
Apologize- why should you? | Don't assume that people think you're sorry, and don't go without acknowledging you did something wrong. |
Why should you forgive people? | Don't keep pushing people away for petty mistakes. Be the bigger person, and grow from the hurt. |