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Habit 4
habit 4 flashcards
Question | Answer |
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this habit is essential to your meaningful life | Think win-win |
what is Win-lose paradigm | Thinking I'm going to beat you no matter what. |
what is Lose-Win paradigm | Thinking I always get stepped on. |
what is Lose-Lose paradigm | Thinking If I'm going down, you're going down with me |
What is win-win paradigm | Thinking we're going to win together |
Why must you find out what a emotional deposit is for the other person | what you might think is a deposit for the other person may be a withdrawal in their mind. |
why do small acts of kindness? | If you want to make friends take the initiative and be kind to others. |
Why keep promises? | Nothing breaks the emotional bank account than to break a serious promise. |
Why keep confidences | Texting or posting photos or information about other people can humiliate them and might get you into trouble |
Why should you be loyal to the absent? | if you bad mouth someone, the people listening will wonder if you are doing the same thing to them behind their backs |
how do you set clear expectations | don't leave thigs fuzzy. if you say you will do something follow through on it. |
Why apologize? | Making excuses instead of making things better turns into a even bigger withdrawal. |
Why forgive? | so that you dont keep hurting yourself the way you were hurt |