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Habit 4 Study Guide
Think Win Win
Term | Definition |
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Emotional Bank Accounts (EBA) | -Do small acts of kindness -Keep promises -Keep confidences -Forgive -Be loyal to the absent -Set clear expectations -Apologize |
7 Key Active Listening Skills | 1. Be attentive 2. Ask open-ended questions 3. Ask probing questions 4. Request Clarification 5. Paraphrase 6. Be attuned to and reflect feelings 7. Summarize |
Courage and Consideration Matrix | The goal of the Win / Win Paradigm is to have the consideration of respecting others around you but to also have the courage to respect yourself. |
4 Quadrants in the Courage and Consideration Matrix | 1. Win / Win - Tough and Nice 2. Win / Lose - Tough and Not Nice 3. Lose / Lose - Weak and Not Nice 4. Lose / Win - Weak and Nice |
Habit 4 SEE-Do-Get Model | See - There is plenty for everyone. - It's possible to win in a way others win too - No one has to lose |
Habit 4 See-DO-Get Model | Do - Balance courage with consideration. - Be happy for the success of others. - Share credit and recognition. - Make deposits in other people's EBAs. |
Habit 4 See-Do-GET Model | Get - More wins. - Faster, better solutions to problems. - Richer, more lasting relationships. |