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Habit 4
Psychology for success
Habit 4 | Think Win-Win |
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Balance courage and consideration | I can build effective relationships with people by working for their benefit as well as my own |
Win-Lose | If you are high on courage and low on consideration you're trying to be better than other people |
Lose-Win | If you're low on courage and high on consideration you're insecure . |
Lose-Lose | If I'm going down you're going down with me. |
Win-Win or no deal | We're going to win together |
Make deposits in other peoples Emotional Bank account (EBA) | I can make deposits of kindness and helpfulness into other peoples (EBA) |
Making new friends can be complicated | You risk getting distant from your family and old friends |
If you're trying to make a new friend or keep an old one think for the relationships as a bank account. | You make deposits or withdrawals |
When you do something that helps the relationship | Its a deposit |
When you do something that hurts the relationship | Its a withdrawal |