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Habit 4
Think Win-Win
Term | Definition |
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Win-Lose | " I am going to beat you no matter what". High on courage/low on consideration (competitive). |
Lose-Win | "I always get stepped on". Low on courage/high on consideration (doormat). |
Lose-Lose | "If I am going down you are going down with me". Low on courage/low on consideration (revenge). |
Win-Win or No Deal | "We are going to win together". High on courage/high on consideration (winner). |
Courage and Consideration Matrix | Win-Lose Win-Win or No Deal Lose-Win Lose-Lose. |
Habit 4 Think Win-Win | This is essential to our meaningful life. It is a basic principle of our successful living: unless other people win with you, you don't truly win. |
Emotional Bank Account Deposit | 1) Do Small Acts of Kindness 2)Keep Promises 3)Keep Confidences 4)Be loyal 5)Be clear 6)Apologize/Forgive. |
Rules for Making Deposits | 1. A deposit is only a deposit if the other person sees it as one. 2. It can take one or more deposits to make up for one withdrawal. |