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Habit 4 Study Guide
Habit 4 Flashcards
Question | Answer |
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Lose - Win | High in consideration but low in courage. You’re eager to please and reluctant to stand up for yourself. |
Lose- Lose | Low in courage and consideration. You don’t care if other people lose,nor do you have the courage to stand up for yourself. |
Win-Win or No Deal | High in both courage and consideration. You’re ready to walk away before someone looses, including yourself . |
Balance Courage and Consideration | Build effective relationships with others working for their benefit as well as my own. takes proactive practice. This is where you want to be. |
Emotional bank account (EBA) | Making deposits of kindness and helpfulness in to other people, makes new friends and build strong relationships |
Do small acts of kindness | Be kind to others, create connections, while making deposits, be courteous and respectful. |
Keep promises | Extremely important to make good on your word, lies, broken promises , break trust. Do what you say you’re going to do. |
Keep Confidence | When something is shared with you in confidence, keep it that way. |
Be Loyal to the absent | If you bad mouth someone, people listening to you will wonder if you’re doing the same to them behind their back. If you hear someone bad-mouthing a friend, speak up! |
Set clear expectations | Don’t leave things fuzzy, follow through on what’s expected. |
Apologize | If you’re in the wrong, admit it now don't wait. Make things better before it turns into a big withdraw. |
Deposits | When you do something helps a relationship, |
Withdrawal | When you do something that hurts the relationship. |
Habit 4 | Think win -win , the habit of mutual benefits. |