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Habit 4 Flashcards
Term | Definition |
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Habit 4 Module 11 Main Point | "I can build effective relationships with people by working for their benefit as well as my own." |
Win-Lose | "I'm going to beat you no matter what." This means you're high on courage and low in consideration. You're bold but cold, unkind, and inconsiderate. |
Lose-Win | "I always get stepped on." This means you're low on courage and high on consideration and not brave enough to speak up. You're a door mat for others. |
Lose-Lose | "If I'm going down, you're going down with me." You envy people and put them down. You're low in consideration and courage. |
Win-Win or No Deal | "We're going to win this together." This is the corner you want to be in; you're high in courage AND consideration. |
Habit 4 Module 12 Main Point | 'I can make deposits of kindness and helpfulness into other's EBA.' |
What is an EBA? | An Emotional Bank Account. |
What is a deposit in an EBA? | When you do something that helps the relationship. |
What is a withdrawal from an EBA? | When you do something that hurts the relationship. |
What kind of deposits can you make into an EBA? | Do small acts of kindness, keep confidences, be loyal to the absent, set clear expectations, apologize, and forgive, |
2 Rules for making deposits | 1. A deposit is only a deposit if the other person sees it as one. 2. It can take one or more deposits to make up for one withdrawal. |