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Think Win-Win
Question | Answer |
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What is "thinking win-win"? | Knowing you can't win unless other people win too. |
How do you think win-win in unfair situations? | STAND UP for yourself! But try to help other people if you can. |
How do you lose the victim mentality - "lose-win"? | Stand up for yourself. If someone tries to take ADVANTAGE of you, don't let them. |
What is "lose-lose"? | If I can't succeed, no one can - that mentality. All this does is hurt people. |
What happens when you prioritize winning above all else - "win-lose"? | You don't bring everybody else up, or really accomplis anything - it's all for YOU. |
What happens if you're just focused on your own wins? | You won't get far in the world - everyone is INTERDEPENDENT. |
What is a scarcity mentality? | The world is like a pie and there is only so much -ZERO SUM GAME. |
How does one think critically? | Watch carefully appeals to authority, think about cause and effect, and the actual real world effects of PROBABILITY. |
What is the "Emotional Bank Account"? | When you do something to help the relation ship = deposit. When you hurt it = withdrawal |
What is an "abundance mentality"? | Believing that there is PLENTY for EVERYONE |
What is "win-win" or "no-deal"? | Believing / knowing you can't win if others do - champion others, etc. Healthy competition |
What is the courage and consideration matrix? | The matrix of the above lose/win win/win win/lose lose/lose scenarios. Win/win is high courage and high consideration. Both are important. |
Being happy for others successes can get you what? | Being happy for others successes can get you a better sense of self worth. |
What can you do to maintain emotional bank account? | Keep promises, be loyal, set clear expectations, apologize, small acts of kindness, find out what other person wants, forgive, give feedback |