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Habit 4: Win-Win
Term | Definition |
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Win-Lose | Always trying to get ahead of others or be better than other people |
Lose-Win | Always looking for sympathy. Insecure. |
Lose-Lose | You envy and criticize others. Putting people down (often yourself) |
Win-Win or No Deal | Balancing courage and consideration is the way to help others feel good and for you to feel good. |
Lose-Win | Eager to please and reluctant to stand up for yourself. But don't say anything |
Lose-Lose | don't care if other people lose, nor has the courage to stand up to yourself. |
Win-Lose | Might be subtle about it, but you ultimately see life as a competition, and want to make sure you're taken care of first. |
Win-Win or No Deal | Balancing courage and consideration takes proactive patience. |
Find out what a Deposit is for the other person | May be in fact a withdrawal in their mind. |
Do small Acts of kindness | Want to make friends do small acts of kindness . |
Keep promises | don't break a serious promise. |
Keep confidence | When someone shares something with you in confidence, keep it that way |
Be loyal to the Absent | Avoid gossiping or backbiting,. |
Set clear expectations | Don't leave things fuzzy with roommates, study groups, or at work, then follow through on what what's expected. |
Apologize | If you are wrong , admit it now |
Forgive | Learn to forgive and forget so that you don't keep hurting yourself the way you were hurt. |