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habit 4 study guide
balance courage with consideration | Think win-win is essential to your meaningful life. |
Win-lose | Having an attitude of "I don't care how good I am as long as I am higher than you" Competitve in a negative way. Results in being lonely. |
Lose- win | Having an attitude of "Have your way with me. Wipe your feet on me. Everyone else does." in the long run they have low self-esteem, low expectations of themselves and give in to peer-pressure and never reach their real dreams. |
lose-lose | Having an attitude of "If I'm going down, then you're going down with me." A downward spiral, enemy-centered, codependent, no one achieves anything. |
win-win | Having an attitude of "there's plenty of success to go around." Wanting others to succeed as you work toward your goals. |
make deposits " emotional bank accounts" | make deposits of kindness and helpfulness into other peoples emotional bank accounts. its easier to make ne friends and build strong relationships. |
small acts of kindness | do kind things to others. |
keep promises | be good on your word and be careful when using the words " i promise " or "i commit " |
keep confindences | be careful about what you say when someone tells you something in confidence . |
be loya to the absent | avoid gossiping and backbiting. |
set clear expectation | be clear of how things will work around. Ex: i make dinner and you wash dishes. |
apologize | admit you are in the wrong before things turn into something bigger. |
forgive | learn to forgive and forget so you wont keep hurting yourself the way you were hurt |