How can you find the right deposit for a certain person?
What you think is a deposit for a person could actually come off as a withdrawal. You will only know when you find out.
What are the 2 principles to live by when thinking win-win?
courage and consideration.
What does win-win, or no deal mean ?
"were going to win together". You're ready to walk away before someone looses, including yourself. We are all winners here.
What are the last thins to keep in mind when messing with someone's emotional bank account?
set clear expectations with your partner. Always apologize, be the bigger person when its necessary and don't forget to have forgiveness
What are the 2 rules for making deposits?
1. A deposit is only a deposit if the other person sees it as one.
2. It can take one or more deposits to make up for one withdrawal.
What does habit 4, think win-win mean?
Think win-win is a basic principle of successful living. UNLESS OTHER PEOPLE WIN WITH YOU, YOU DONT TRULY WIN.
What happens when you deposit and withdraw emotions from a relationship?
When you do something that helps this relationship, its a deposit. When you do something to hurt this relationship its a withdrawal.
What is the paradigm of lose-win?
"I always get stepped on", If your low on courage and high on consideration, your insecure. You aren't brave enough to stick up for yourself. You think "poor me" and your always looking for sympathy.
What is the paradigm of lose-lose?
"If I'm going down, your going down with me". If you cannot win, no one will win. You want to get revenge. You envy, criticize others and put them down. When you want someone else to lose so bad, you're willing to give up your own success.
What happens if you constantly think lose-win?
If you constantly think lose-win, you choose to be a doormat for other. They are able to "walk all over you"
