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Bob Sanderlin Test 2
Questions to study
Question | Answer |
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Why does the strengths of the Choleric personality type? (IN balance) | adventurous, persuasive, strong – willed, competitive, resourceful, self-reliant, positive, sure of self, outspoken, forceful, daring, confident, independent, decisive, mover (an action), tenacious, chief/leader, productive |
What are the strengths of the Melancholy personality type? (IN balance) | Analytical, persistent, self-sacrificing, consider it, respectful, sensitive, planner, scheduled, orderly, faithful, detailed, cultured, idealistic, deep, musical, thoughtful, loyal, chart maker (lists, etc.), perfectionist, behaved |
What are the weaknesses of the Choleric personality type? (OUT of balance) | Bossy, unsympathetic, resistance, frank, impatient, unaffectionate, headstrong, proud, argumentative, nervy, workaholic, tactless, domineering, not tolerance, manipulative, stubborn, lords seems over other people's short tempered, rash, crafty |
What are the weaknesses of the Melancholy personality type? (OUT of balance) | Bashful, unforgiving, resentful, fussy, insecure, unpopular, hard to please pessimistic, alienated, negative attitude, withdrawn, too sensitive, depressed, introvert, moody, skeptical, loner, suspicious, revengeful, critical |
What are the strengths of the Sanguine personality type? (IN balance) | Animated, playful, sociable, convincing, refreshing, spirited, promoter, spontaneous, optimistic, funny delightful, cheerful inspiring, demonstrative, mixes easily in company, talker, lively, cute, popular, bouncy |
What are the strengths of the Phlegmatic personality type? (IN balance) | Adaptable, peaceful submissive control, reserved, satisfied, patient, shy, obliging, friendly, diplomatic, consistent, inoffensive, dry sense of humor, mediator, tolerant, listener, contented, permissive, balanced |
What are the weaknesses of the Sanguine personality type? (OUT of balance) | Brassy, undisciplined, repetitious, forgetful, interrupts, unpredictable, hazard, permissive, easily angered, naïve wants credit, talkative, disorganized, inconsistent, messy, show off, loud, scatterbrained, restless, changeable |
What are the weaknesses of the Phlegmatic personality type? (OUT of balance) | Blank, unenthusiastic, reticent, fearful, indecisive, uninvolved, hesitant, plain, aimless, nonchalant, worrier, timid, doubtful, indifferent, mumbles, slow, lazy, sluggish reluctance, compromising |
What is a Choleric personality type best at (when working)? | Leadership. Motivating people to action, controlling the plans and productivity, giving quick and clear instructions make sure the group sees the immediate gain |
What are the primary needs of a Choleric personality type? | Action, excitement, a sense of being in control |
What are Sanguine personality types best at (when working)? | Motivating others to join. Being created. Making initial contact with people, creating enthusiasm and excitement, encouraging and uplifting other people, ensuring that the group has fun |
What are Phlegmatic personality types best at (when working)? | Making other people feel like they belong, great support person. Make sure the group is comfortable, always finding a middle ground, staying calm and functional in the middle of chaos, not overreacting to negative situations |
What are the primary needs of a Sanguine personality type? | Fun and adventure |
What are the primary needs of a Phlegmatic personality type? | Rest, and some quiet time |
What are the primary needs of a Melancholy personality type? | Order and understanding |
What two personality types are extroverts? (Being with people refreshes and balances them) | Cholerics and Sanguines |
What are Melancholy personality types best at (when working)? | Seeing The financial benefits of something, great detail person. Planning and explaining the details, keeping financial records straight, being sensitive to the needs of others, making sure the group sees the long-range goal. |
What to personality types are introverts? (Being alone refreshes and balances them) | Melancholys and Phlegmatics |
What are the main complaints people have regarding Choleric personalities? | They tend to be too impulsive and intimidating |
When a Sanguine is getting some kind of presentation, what you expect to present in their delivery style? | Humorous, with a light touch |
Masks: how can a domineering parent be the cause of masking? | When a child is constantly required to conform to a personality that does not represent who they are, the child tries to seize the adults by assuming that forced role. |
Masks: why does childhood sexual interference/violation cause masking? | Children subconsciously move towards "perfection" to be "good enough" to be left alone. Scores with high melancholy weaknesses without a similar number of strengths, or high Sanguine strengths without balancing weaknesses may indicate sexual abuse. |
Masks: how does being raised in a single-parent family (especially a firstborn) create masking for some adults? | When children are required to fulfill roles of the absent parent, and these functions are not consistent with the child's natural personality, the child often will take on a mask and carry it into adulthood. |
Masks: why might a person with the domineering and controlling spouse or partner in adult life end up with a mask? | Melancholy/Choleric husbands, determined to change a Sanguine wife to conform to his concept of what she should be or act is most common. After a period of this kind of control, the woman perceives herself to be melancholy/Phlegmatic to survive. |
Masks: why does adult abuse or rejection in marriage/relationships cause a person to wear a mask? | The lonely or hurting person was on a mass to survive, distorting their natural personality. |
Masks: when all or profile scores are similar, with two possibilities exist as an explanation? | 1: the person is unable to identify your character trait, or they may be a phlegmatic (has trouble making choices for doesn't care.) 2: trauma has distorted the persons self-image the point that their true nature is impossible to distinguish. |
Masks: When three personality types score almost equally, how can you tell which personality is most likely a mask? | The two-handed peace symbol system: 1 hand will have 2 fingers for personality types in 1 group. The other hand will have only 1 finger up, and that is an authentic personality type. 1 of the remaining 2 fingers on the remaining hand represents a mask. |
What personality is this: lives through other people, socially insecure, withdrawn and remote, criticizes others, with old section, doesn't like people opposing them, suspicious of people | Melancholy |
What personality is this: antagonistic and vengeful, unforgiving, full of contradictions, skeptical of complements | Melancholy |
What personality is this: unenthusiastic, fearful, worried, indecisive, avoids responsibility, has a quiet will of iron, selfish, too shy and reticent, to compromising, self-righteous | Phlegmatic |
Which personality type needs to: find someone to keep them accountable, learn to be clear and concise in conversations with details, plan variety into every day, be on time or early, prioritize truth and honesty | Sanguine |
Which personality type needs to: finish what it started – or delegate in order to keep commitments, develop sensitivity to the needs of others, listen more, talk less, learn questions that draw out other people | Sanguine |
The following characteristics of the baby go with what personality type? Avoid dull tasks, routines, criticism, details, and lofty goals? | Sanguine |
Identify the personality type for a child with the following characteristics: daring, eager, productive, sees the goal, moves quickly into action, self-sufficient, competitive, assertive, trustworthy, manipulative, has temper tantrums | Choleric |
Identify the personality type for a child with the following characteristics: constantly on the go, insistent, won't give up, testing and pushing limits, argumentative, stubborn | Choleric |
Sanguines: identify the basic desire and emotional needs | Have fun, get attention, affection, approval, acceptance |
How does the Sanguine control others? | Charm: "you will just LOVE what I have in mind!" |
What is the basic desire and emotional needs of the Phlegmatic? | Basic desire: peace. Needs: peace and quiet, a feeling of worth, lack of stress, respect |
How does the Choleric control other people? | Threats of anger. "You remember what happened the last time you did that!" |
How does the Phlegmatic control other people? | Procrastination. "If I wait long enough, someone else will do it." |
Name the two personality types that are decisive, organized, and goal oriented | Choleric and Melancholy |
What is the basic desire and emotional needs of the Melancholy? | Basic desire: perfection. Emotional needs: sensitivity, support, space for oneself, silence |
What is the basic desire and emotional needs of the Choleric? | Basic need: control. Emotional needs: loyalty, a sense of control, appreciation, credit for work done |
How does the Melancholy control other people? | Threat of uncomfortable moods.. "I'll probably get depressed if…" "Oh NO! Not THAT again!" |
What are the sexual desires associated with Cholerics? | Likes the chase and conquest more than commitment. Needs to be in control of the relationship. |
What two personality types are introverted, pessimistic, and soft-spoken? | Melancholy and Phlegmatic |
What are the sexual desires associated with Melancholys? | Yearns for deep meaningful relationship. Like romance, candles and music |
What do Sanguines most fear? | Being unpopular or ignored. Getting old, lonely and unattractive. Running out of money. |
What are Without the sexual desires associated with Sanguines? | Longs for love and excitement to an extreme degree… Often finds it in the wrong place. |
Name the personality type that becomes depressed when: life is not perfect, emotional pain is unbearable there is a lack of understanding from other people. | Melancholy |
Name this personality type: frenetic, high stakes. May have sudden exhaustion spells. Is energized by being around other people | Sanguine |
Name this personality type: moderate energy, needs peace and quiet. This personality type is drained by being around people. | Melancholy |
Name this personality type: highest energy of all. Needs little rest. Thrives on people around who can be controlled. | Choleric |
Name this personality type: Lowest energy level. Needs much rest. Is drained by being around people too much. | Phlegmatic |
What personality type tends to be too easily distracted and forgetful? | Sanguine |
What personality type tends to be too impulsive and intimidating? | Choleric |
What personality hates to be alone, need to be center stage. Wants to be popular, looks for credit, dominates conversations, interrupts and does not listen, answers for other people, fickle and forgetful, makes excuses, repeats stories | Sanguine |
Why is having a mask an undesirable thing to have? | Masks take a huge amount of energy to pretend a personality role that is not natural. When masks are resolved, people feel free to be themselves, and are much less anxious and troubled. |
What personality tends to use people, dominates others, decides for others, knows everything, can do everything better, too independent, possessive of friends/mate, will not say "I am sorry", often right but unpopular? | Choleric |
what personality is this? Thoughtful and deep, analytical thinker, serious, purposeful, talented, creative, artistic or musical, philosophical and poetic, appreciates beauty, sensitive to others, self-sacrificing, conscientious, idealistic? | Melancholy |
what personality is this? Bossy, inpatient, quick-tempered, is not relax, impetuous, likes controversy and arguing, doesn't give up when losing, comes on too strong, inflexible, not complementary, hates tears/emotions, unsympathetic? | Choleric |
What personality is this? Cautious when making friends, enjoys graphs and lists, likes staying in the background, avoids drawing attention to self, is faithful and devoted, listens with compassion to complaints? | Melancholy |
What personality is this? Focuses on negatives, moody and depressed, seems to enjoy being hurt, often another world, low self-image, selective hearing, self-centered, too introspective, feels frequent guilt, persecution complex, hypochondria? | Phlegmatic |
With personality is this? Low – key personality, easy-going and relaxed. Column, cool and collected, patient, well-balanced, consistent life, quiet but witty. Sympathetic and kind, keeps emotions hidden, happily rescan silent life, all-purpose person? | Phlegmatic |
Which personality needs: to look for a job that gives a sense of recognition, learn to put things back in the same place every time, track spending to avoid becoming a shopaholic, schedule cleaning/arranging during the week and follow the schedule? | Sanguine |
Which personality type needs to find someone to keep them accountable, learn to be clear and concise in conversations with details, plan variety into every day, beyond time or early, make truth and honesty priority? | Sanguine |
Which personality needs to finish what you started – or delegate in order to keep commitments, develop sensitivity to the needs of others, listen more, talk less, learn questions that draw out other people? | Sanguine |
Which personality type needs to trust their own abilities, recognize the tendency towards laziness and really understand how it affects other people, choose and model a winning attitude, find one's real interest in pursue it? | Phlegmatic |
Which personality type needs to learn some phrases to encourage other people, show they really heard and do care, develop a plan to keep heading toward growth (Swiss accountability), plan and complete several jobs in one day? | Choleric |
Which personality needs to learn to put other people first, look for ways to validate the creativity of others, learn to compromise and cooperate with others, accept affection, learn to relax (so they don't turn into workaholics)? | Choleric |
Which personality type needs to communicate feelings so people will relate and want to move closer, learn to love oneself for exactly who they are, focus on one's strengths instead of weaknesses, write down problems that needed decision? | Phlegmatic |
Which personality type needs to be first to apologize, lead instead of pushing, lighten up, develop a plan to encourage other people (verbal or written), wait until advice is asked for? | Choleric |
Which personality type needs to stop letting resentments build? Give up sarcasm in "one – liner" humor, stop procrastinating and expecting other people to do their work, stop saying "I don't care", practice making choices, stop discouraging other people? | Phlegmatic |
Which personality type needs to admit existence of one's own faults and weaknesses, issue requests instead of orders, practice being flexible, greet people with a warm smile, take time to spend with family, scheduled time off for enjoyment? | Choleric |
what personality type needs to stay out of problems that belong to other people, stop expecting everyone to want to do it their way, stop assuming they know everything, stop being so bossy that other people are intimidated? | Choleric |
Which personality type needs to stop assuming that everyone wants their advice, quit expecting everyone to produce results as this person does? | Choleric |
Which personality type needs to reach out, touch, hug, focus on other people, ease up on standards for self and others, be less sensitive and stop taking things personally, learn to meet others' needs and appreciate their differences? | Melancholy |
Which personality type self medicates when life is out of order and there seems to be no hope. "I'll just retreat and drown my sorrows." Addiction for perfection, neatness, prayer/meditation, church/synagogue/self-help groups, solitude and isolation? | Melancholy |
Which personality type self medicates when life is out of control? "I'll try harder and get things under control!" Addiction to work, control, exercise, power? | Choleric |
How does the Phlegmatic control other people? | Procrastination. "If I wait long enough, someone else will do it." |
How does the Choleric control other people | Threats of anger. "You remember what happened the last time you did that!" |
Which two personality types are extroverted, optimistic and outspoken? | Choleric and Sanguine |
Which two personality types are introverted, pessimistic, and soft spoken? | Melancholy Phlegmatic |
Which two personality types are decisive, organized, and goal oriented? | Choleric and Melancholy |
Which personality type becomes depressed when life is not perfect. Emotional pain seems unbearable. Lack of understanding from others | Melancholy |