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Think Win-Win
Question | Answer |
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What is Win-Lose? | When you win but the other person loses. You are only focused on your benefit and not theirs. |
What is Lose-Win? | When you lose but the other person wins. You get taken advantage of for their benefit. |
What is Lose-Lose? | Both people lose in the relationship. Relationships in a circular pattern of retaliation are lose-lose. |
What is Win-Win? | When both people get positive results from the interaction. Optimal solution for relationships. |
What is courage? | How much you are willing to stand up for you own interests. |
What is consideration? | How much attention you pay towards the others person's goals. |
What is the ideal balance of courage and consideration? | High courage and high consideration. That leads to the most win-win outcomes. |
What is an EBA? | Emotional bank account. Positives are deposits, negatives are withdrawals. |
What are some ways to deposit into an EBA? | Keeping promises, keeping confidences, and setting clear expectations are good ways to deposit into an EBA. |
What are some ways to withdrawal from an EBA? | Refusing to apologize, not being kind to the absent, and being unforgiving are ways to hurt an EBA. |