click below
click below
Normal Size Small Size show me how
Habit 4 Study Guide
Create Flashcards for Habit 4
Term | Definition |
---|---|
Thinking Win-Win | Basic principle of success, you can't win at life unless others win too |
Win-Lose | High on Courage/Low on Consideration Ex: You can't win unless other people lose. |
Lose-Win | Low on Courage/High on Consideration Ex: Being insecure and not being brave enough to stick up for one's self. |
Lose-Lose | Low on Courage/Low on Consideration Ex: If you can't win, nobody wins. Revenge, envy, criticism falls in this category. |
Win-Win | Balancing Courage and Consideration. Ex: Winning or succeeding together as a team. |
Emotional Bank Account (EBA) | Treating a relationship or friendship as a bank account. Making deposits/withdrawals that can either improve (deposit) or hurt (withdrawal) the relationship. |
Types of EBA Deposits: Definition of a Deposit for the Other Person | Finding out what the other person would view or like to show them you're emotionally invested |
Types of EBA Deposits: Small Acts of Kindness | Treating people with kindness and respect. |
Types of EBA Deposits: Keep Promises | Make good on your word or commitments. |
Types of EBA Deposits: Keep Confidences | Don't spread confidential information or secrets, always keep what your friend tells you between the two of you. |
Types of EBA Deposits: Be Loyal to the Absent | Don't gossip or badmouth your friend. Stick up for people you care about. |
Types of EBA Deposits: Set Clear Expectations | Set clear objectives/expectations and then follow through on the expectations. |
Types of EBA Deposits: Apologize | If you're wrong, own up to it and move on. Don't make excuses. |
Types of EBA Deposits: Forgive | Learn to forgive. Don't let yesterday hold your tomorrow hostage. Don't "get even". |