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Habit 4 Study guide
WIN-LOSE | You can't win unless other people lose. You're high on pride, but low on consideration. |
Lose-Win | If you're low on courage and high on consideration, you're insecure. You're not able to stick up for yourself. |
LOSE-LOSE | If you can't win, nobody wins. |
WIN-WIN | You cant win unless others win too. Helping others win is just as important as your own win. |
bottom-right corner //courage and consideration matrix | you're high in consideration but low in courage. You often end up in lose-win situations |
bottom left corner //courage and consideration matrix | low in both courage and consideration. You don't care if other people lose nor do you have the courage to stand up for yourself. |
upper left corner//courage and consideration matrix | you're low in consideration and high in courage. You want to get ahead ,be the best, and rise above even if it means stepping others |
upper right//courage and consideration matrix | This is where you want to be.High in both courage and consideration. win-win or no deal |
Deposit | Doing things that helps the relationship grow. |
withdrawal | Doing things that hurts the relationship |
Keep promises | breaking a serious promise can cause a huge withdrawal in a relationship |
Be loyal to the absent | Avoid gossiping . If you hear someone badmouthing a friend, speak up! |
apologize | if you're in the wrong, admit it NOW. Making excuses instead of making things better causes a huge withdrawal |
Forgive | Learn to forgive and forget so that you dont keep hurting yourself. |