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Habit 4 study guide
Question | Answer |
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Think win win | Is essential to your meaningful life, it is your basic principle to successful living and you can't win unless other people win too |
Benefits | It is the key to getting along with other people, its not being selfish with winning its we both win |
Goal | How to succeed with all relationships |
Students with habit four do what? | Have the courage to stand up for themselves but also to respect others. they know its better when everybody wins. |
If you think win lose | you are always trying to get ahead of others, you can't win unless others lose. |
What are the characteristics of people who think lose win? | i. Insecurity ii. victim mentality iii. frightened |
characteristics of people who think win wins | i. Kindness ii. Patience iii. Courageous |
If you think lose lose? | Then nobody wins; you envy and criticize others, you put other people down and often yourself too |
Competitive scripting leads to? | A scarcity mentality- If they win I lose so I had better win before they do |
Self worth | Is about who you are in your heart, its about your unique talents and potentials and improvement from experience |
A persons self worth has? | Nothing to do with anybody else but oneself |
Abundance mentality means? | A person with this mentality believes there's plenty to go around for everybody |
An effective person thinks? | Win-win |
Example of win-win thinking; | You recently got a promotion at work, you work hard with others so that can get promoted too. |
What does this phrase "we live in an inter-dependent world" mean? | In most of life you can't declare yourself independent of everyone else. |
People who think win win | Don't feel threatened when someone else wins and their feelings of self worth don't come from being better than someone else. |
We should think of our relationships as? | A bank account (Emotional) |
Meaning of "deposits" in habit 4? | Doing something that helps the relationship resulting to a win-win situation |
Meaning of "withdrawals" in habit 4? | Doing something that hurt the relationship resulting to a lose-lose situation |
If you don't go for win win | you take advantage of other people or they will take advantage of you |