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Habit 4 Study Guide
Question | Answer |
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What is a Win-Lose mindset due to? | High on courage and low on consideration |
What is a Lose-Win mindset due to? | Low on courage and high on consideration (insecure) |
What is a Lose-Lose mindset due to? | Low on courage and low on consideration |
What is a Win-Win or No Deal mindset due to? | High on consideration and high on courage |
What 2 principles do Win-Win or No Deal people live by? | Courage and consideration |
What is considered to be in the bottom-right corner of the Courage and Consideration Matrix? | Lose-Win |
What is considered to be in the bottom-left corner of the Courage and Consideration Matrix? | Lose-Lose |
What is considered to be in the upper-left corner of the Courage and Consideration Matrix? | Win-Lose |
What is considered to be in the upper-right corner of the Courage and Consideration Matrix? | Win-Win or No Deal |
Which corner should you strive to be in within the Courage and Consideration Matrix? | Upper-right or Win-Win or No Deal |
Explain Lose-Win | Eager to please others and reluctant to stand up for yourself |
Explain Lose-Lose | You don't care if other people lose, nor do you have the courage to stand up for yourself. |
Explain Win-Lose | -You're bold but cold (unsympathetic, inconsiderate, and unkind) -you see life as a competition |
Explain Win-Win or No deal | You're ready to walk away before someone loses, including yourself |
What does EBA stand for? | Emotional Bank Account |
Explain Deposits | Things you do that helps the relationship |
Explain Withdrawals | Things you do that does not help the relationship |
What are some ways to make deposits? | Small acts of kindness, keep promises, keep confidences, be loyal to the absent, set clear expectations, apologize, and forgive |
What is the first step in making deposits? | Find out what a deposit is for the other person |
Explain "Do small acts of kindness" | Take the initiative t be kind to others and make connections |
Explain "Keep Promises" | Make good on your word and be careful before using words such as "I promise" or "I commit" |
Explain "Keep confidences" | Keep others words in confidence, do not share their information |
Explain "Be loyal to the absent" | Avoid gossiping or backbiting, stick-up for people |
Explain "Apologize" | -If you are in the wrong, admit it -don't make excuses |
Explain "Forgive" | -Learn to forgive and forget for your own good -don't let yesterday hold you hostage |