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Module 4
Think Win-Win
| Topic | Review |
|---|---|
| Win-Lose | High courage plus low consideration just means you're always trying to get ahead of others. |
| Win-Lose | You can't win unless other people lose. |
| Lose-Win | Low courage plus high consideration results as insecurity. |
| Lose-Win | You're not brave enough to stick up for yourself |
| Lose-Lose | If you can't win, no one can. |
| Lose-Lose | You get revenge |
| Win-Win | You've achieved a balance of courage and consideration. |
| Win-Win | You're ready to walk away before someone loses. |
| Module 12: Main Point | Depositing acts of kindness and helpfulness into Emotional Bank Accounts (EBA) is key to making friends |
| Find Out What a Deposit is for the Other Person | What a deposit is to you could be a withdrawal in to someone else. You'll never know unless you find out. |
| Do Small Acts of Kindness | The second deposit is to treat people with kindness. |
| Do Small Acts of Kindness | The opposite(withdrawal) would be being disrespectful, discourteous or unkind. |
| Keep Promises | Nothing bankrupts a EBA like a broken promise. |
| Keep Promises | Just be careful before choosing to use the words "I promise" or "I commit". |
| Keep Confidences | If someone shares information in confidence, it's wise not to spread that info to anyone. |
| Be Loyal to the Absent | When you badmouth someone it makes others wonder if you do the same about them. |
| Be Loyal to the Absent | When someone badmouths a friend, you should stick up for them. |
| Set Clear Expectations | Be clear with whomever you speak with on expectations, then follow through. |
| Apologize | If you're in the wrong, admit it now. Waiting turns the situation into a withdrawal. |
| Forgive | Learn to forget and forgive so you're not hurting yourself the way you were hurt. |
| Forgive | Talking about other's failing or getting even will never help you. |