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Module 4
Think Win-Win
Topic | Review |
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Win-Lose | High courage plus low consideration just means you're always trying to get ahead of others. |
Win-Lose | You can't win unless other people lose. |
Lose-Win | Low courage plus high consideration results as insecurity. |
Lose-Win | You're not brave enough to stick up for yourself |
Lose-Lose | If you can't win, no one can. |
Lose-Lose | You get revenge |
Win-Win | You've achieved a balance of courage and consideration. |
Win-Win | You're ready to walk away before someone loses. |
Module 12: Main Point | Depositing acts of kindness and helpfulness into Emotional Bank Accounts (EBA) is key to making friends |
Find Out What a Deposit is for the Other Person | What a deposit is to you could be a withdrawal in to someone else. You'll never know unless you find out. |
Do Small Acts of Kindness | The second deposit is to treat people with kindness. |
Do Small Acts of Kindness | The opposite(withdrawal) would be being disrespectful, discourteous or unkind. |
Keep Promises | Nothing bankrupts a EBA like a broken promise. |
Keep Promises | Just be careful before choosing to use the words "I promise" or "I commit". |
Keep Confidences | If someone shares information in confidence, it's wise not to spread that info to anyone. |
Be Loyal to the Absent | When you badmouth someone it makes others wonder if you do the same about them. |
Be Loyal to the Absent | When someone badmouths a friend, you should stick up for them. |
Set Clear Expectations | Be clear with whomever you speak with on expectations, then follow through. |
Apologize | If you're in the wrong, admit it now. Waiting turns the situation into a withdrawal. |
Forgive | Learn to forget and forgive so you're not hurting yourself the way you were hurt. |
Forgive | Talking about other's failing or getting even will never help you. |