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Habit 4
Think Win-Win Study Guide
Term | Definition |
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Get | More “wins” in life and better relationships |
Do | Balance courage with consideration. Make deposits in other peoples Emotional Bank Accounts |
See | It is possible to win in such a way that others can win too. |
Win Win | I can build effective relationships with people by working for their benefits as well as my own. |
Win- lose | You can’t win unless other people lose. Low in consideration and high in courage. |
Lose -Win | You have a permanent victim mentality, “Poor me”- Are you a Door mat? High in consideration but low in courage |
Lose-Lose | “If I’m going down you’re going down with me.” If you can’t win no body wins. Low in both courage and consideration |
Win Win or No Deal | “We’re going to win together;” High in Courage and Consideration |
Michael Tubbs | “There is no great joy in being the first if you are also the last.” |
Emotional Bank Accounts (EBAs) | I can make deposits of kindness and helpfulness into other people’s Emotional Bank Accounts. When I do this, it’s easier to make me friends and build strong relationships. |
EBA deposit | Do small acts of kindness- treat people with kindness |
Keep Promises | -Make good on your word and follow through. |
Keep Confidence | A secrete is no longer a secret when you tell someone, someone else’s secrete. |
Be Loyal to the Absent | Don’t talk about me behind my back or while I’m not around. Stick up for someone . |
Set Clear Expectations | Verbalize what is expected or reiterate what you are expected to do so that all is clear about the assignment. |
Lynn Johnson Apologize | Own your fault and sincerely apologize for it. “An apology is the superglue of life. It can repair just about anything.” |
Forgive | - Is the first step in healing and then moving forward. Learn to forgive so that you won’t continue to hurt |
The withdrawal | Don’t be the person to take deposits out of someone’s EBA. So don’t be unkind, disrespectful, dishonest, rude. |