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Habit 4 Study Guide
Think Win-Win
Question | Answer |
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What is defined as an essential to you meaningful life, and not being able truly win unless others win with you? | Habit 4 |
" I can build effective relationships with people by working for their benefit as well as my own. True or False? | True |
Considered a proud mindset. "I'm going to beat you no matter what." You can't win unless other people lose - see life as a competition Unsympathetic, inconsiderate, and unkind High in courage, low in consideration | Win-Lose |
Considered an insecure mindset. "I always get stepped on." Eager to please and reluctant to stand up for yourself - you have a permanent victim mentality High in considertion, but low on courage. | Lose-Win |
"If I'm going down, you're going down with me." If you lose no one wins. Envy and criticize others. Low in both consideration and courage. | Lose-Lose |
"We're going to win together." Ready to walk away before someone loses. Balancing courage and consideration is the way to help others and for you to feel good to. | Win-Win |
What two principles do people who think win-win live by? | courage and consideration |
Balancing both courage and consideration takes proactive patience. True or False? | True |
What helps making new friends and building strong relationships easier? | Making deposits of kindness and helpofulness. |
How can we think of our relationships as personal bank accounts? | deposit - something that helps the relationship withdrawal - somedthing that hurts the relationship |
All deposits are good for everyone. True or False? | False |
What does EBA stand for? | Emotional Bank Account |
What bankrupts the EBA? | Broken promises |
Avoid gossiping Stick up for people | Examples of being loyal to the absent |
Leaders use kindness and positivity as currencies of influence. True or False? | True |
Not leaving things fuzzy and following through on what's expected are examples of what? | Setting clear expectations |
Learning to forgive and forget is vital so that | you dont keep hurting others the way you were hurt |