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Habit 4: Think Win
Term | Definition |
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Module 11: Main Point | You can build effective relationships with people by working for their benefit as well as my own. |
Win-Lose | High Courage, Low Consideration. You are always trying to beat others or be better than them. You can not not win, unless they lose. You are Proud |
Lose-Win | Low Courage, High Consideration. You are easily taken advantage of, and bury a lot of feelings. |
Lose-Lose | If you can not win, nobody can win. You get revenge. You envy and criticize others. |
Win-Win or No Deal | You are ready to walk away before someone loses, including yourself. Balancing Courage and Consideration. |
Module 12: Main Point | You can make deposits of kindness and helpfulness into other people's Emotional Bank Accounts. When you do this, it is easier to make new friends and build strong relationships. |
Deposits and Withdrawals | Think about making friends or keeping old ones like depositing and withdrawing from a bank account, with the relationship being the bank account. Deposit( good for the relationship/acts of kindness); Withdrawal(bad for the relationship/acts of rudeness). |
Find Out What a Deposit Is for the Other Person | What you may think is a deposit for one person, may actually be a withdrawal. |
Keep Promises | Keep your promises, as breaking or not keeping a promises can seriously break someone's trust in you. |
Apologize | Do not wait to apologize, or make excuses for your behavior if you are in the wrong. Not apologizing when you know you should is a huge withdraw. |
Forgive | Learn to forgive and forget so yesterday does not hold tomorrow hostage. Getting even or talking about other people's failings will not help you. |