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Win-win
habit 4 study quide
Term | Definition |
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Win-win | Essential and basic principle to living, if others don't win too, you don't truly win either |
keep promises | lies or broken promises will break trust and takes a long time to rebuild your emotional bank account. do what you say you're going to do because people must see it to believe it.. |
keep confidences | If someone shares a secret in confidence keep it that way. Spreading rumors. be careful what you spread around because it can humiliate someone or get you in trouble. |
be loyal to the absent | avoiding gossip, if you badmouth someone others will think you're doing the same to them so stick up for people and speak up for those who are badmouthed. |
set clear expectations | don't leave things fuzzy. follow through on what's expected. |
apologize | if you're in the wrong admit it now. making excuses instead of making things better turns into an even bigger withdrawal. |
forgive | learn to forgive not forget so that you don't keep hurting yourself the way you were hurt. Getting even or talking about other people's failings wont help you. |