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Habit 4 study guide
Question | Answer |
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Habit 4 Think win-win | About building effective relationships by working for their benefit while you are working for your own. |
see | its possible to win in such a way that others can win too |
do | -Balance courage and consideration. -Make deposits in the emotional bank account. |
get | more "wins" in life and better relationships |
habit win-win | It is essential to your life. You cant win at life unless other people win too. |
Win-lose | "Im going to beat you no matter what." if your're high on courage and low on considcration, you're always trying to get ahead of others or be better than other people. |
Lose-win | "I always get stepped on." if you're low on courage and high on consideration your'e insecure. Youre not brave enough to stick up for yourself |
Lose-lose | "If i'm going , you're going down with me" if you cant win , nobody wins. you get revenge. you envy and criticize others. you put people down and often yourself. |
win-win | "We're going to win together." Balancing courage and consideration is the way to help you and others feel good. |
People who think Win-Win or No deal live by two principles | courage and consideration |
Courage and consideration matrix | high- low=win lose & lose win low-low= lose-lose high-high= win-win or no deal |
If you are high in consideration but low in courage | a lose-win (eager to please) |
If you're a low in both courage and consideration | a lose-lose |
if you're low in consideration and high in courage | a win lose (bold but cold - unsympathetic |