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habit 4
Term | Definition |
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Win- Lose | If you have a win lose mindset your high on courage and low on consideration, your always trying to get ahead of others or be better than other people. |
Lose -Win | Your high in consideration but low in courage, You're eager to please and reluctant to stand up for yourself therefore, you often end up in lose- win situations. |
Lose- Lose | If you win nobody wins . Your low in both courage and consideration. You don't care if other people lose nor do you have the courage to stick up for yourself. |
Win- Win or No Deal | You're ready to walk away before someone loses including yourself. Balancing courage and consideration is the way to help others feel goodd and for you to feel goof too. |
Find Out What a Deposit Is For The Other Person | What you think is a deposit for the other person may in fact be a with drawl in their mind. You won't know unless you find out. |
Do Small Acts of Kindness | A second deposit is to treat people with kindness. If you want to make friends, take the initiative, be kind to others, and create connections while making deposits both on and offline. |
Keep Promises | With big withdrawals like lies or broken promises , you break trust. It takes a long time to rebuild an Emotional Bank Account. You cant talk yourself out of problems you behave yourself into. |
Keep Confidence | Be careful what you spread around about other people on social media. |
Be Loyal To the Absent | Avoid gossiping or backbiting. If you bad- mouth someone, the people listening to you will wonder if you're doing the same to them behind their back. |
Set clear Expectations | Don't leave things fuzzy. With roommates: I'll make dinner this week if you clean the kitchen''. then follow through on what's expected. |
Apologize | If your in the wrong admit it now. Don't wait. Making excuses instead of making things better turns into a n even bigger withdrawal. |
Forgive | Learn to forgive and to forget so that you don't keep hurting yourself the way you were hurt. Getting even or talking about other people's failings won't help you. |