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HABIT 4 Study Guide
Think Win-Win ( The Habit of Mutual Benefit)
Question | Answer |
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Win-Lose | "I'm going to beat you no matter what." (You can't win unless other people lose.) |
Lose-Win | "I always get stepped on." ( You have a permanent victim mentality.) |
Lose-Lose | "If I'm going down your going down with me." (If you can't win nobody wins.) |
Win-Win or No Deal | "We are going to win together." (You're ready to walk away before someone loses-including yourself.) |
I can make _______ of kindness and helpfulness into other people's Emotional Bank Accounts. | deposits=when you do something that helps the relationship. |
When you do something that hurts, the relationship, that a _________. | Withdrawal |
What you think is a deposit is for the other person may in fact be a _________. | Withdrawal |
Keep _________. | Promises-nothing bankrupts the EBA (Emotional Bank Accounts) faster-even if the account has a huge balance---then to break a promise. |
Keep ___________. | Confidences-when someone shares something with you in confidence, keep it that way. |
Be _________ to the Absent. | Loyal-Avoid gossiping and backbiting. |
Set ________ Expectations. | Clear-don't leave things fuzzy. |
If your in the wrong, admit it now. | Apologize- "That was unkind of me, I apologize." |
Learn to ________ and _________ so that you don't keep hurting yourself the way you were hurt. | Forgive ; Forget |