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Habit 4
flashcards for habit 4 study guide
Question | Answer |
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Where is win-lose on the courage and consideration matrix? | The upper-right corner. High on courage, low on consideration. |
Where is lose-win on the courage and consideration matrix? | The bottom-right corner. Low on courage, high on consideration. |
Where is lose-lose on the courage and consideration matrix? | The bottom-left corner. Low on courage, low on consideration. |
Where is win-win or no deal on the courage and consideration matrix? | The upper-right corner. High on courage, high on consideration. |
What are the characteristics of win-lose? | Everyone must lose for you to win. These people want to rise above the rest, even if it means stepping on others to get there. They see life as a competition. |
What are the characteristics of lose-win? | You let others take advantage of you. These people are insecure, not brave, and have a victim mentality. They are eager to please and reluctant o stand up for themselves. You lose. |
What are the characteristics of lose-lose? | If you can't win, no one will. These people envy and criticize others. They give up their chance of success just so someone else doesn't get it. |
What are the characteristics of win-win or no deal? | You're ready to walk away before someone loses, including yourself. These people balance courage and consideration, which makes yourself and other people feel good. |
Find out what a deposit is for the other person. | You might enjoy something, and/or think someone else enjoys it, but you really wont know unless you ask. |
Do small acts of kindness. | Be kind, and create connections while making deposits. Be kind online and offline. |
Keep promises. | It’s very important to make good on your word and to be careful before promising anything. Breaking a promise can break trust and take a long time to rebuild. Do what you say you’re going to. |
Keep confidences. | If someone shares a secret, you should keep it. Be careful with what you say about people. You could easily humiliate others or get yourself into trouble. |
Be loyal to the absent. | Avoid gossip. If you hear someone badmouthing another person, stick up for them. |
Set clear expectations. | Give clear, specific expectations and follow through on what’s expected. |
Apologize. | If you’re in the wrong, don’t wait to apologize. Waiting or making excuses can turn the situation into an even bigger withdrawal. |
Forgive. | Learn to forgive and forget. If not, you will keep hurting yourself the way you were hurt. |