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Habit 4
Term | Definition |
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Habit 4 | Think Win Win- all about relationships |
Win-Lose | You don't win unless someone looses. You’re low in both courage and consideration. |
Lose-Win | Always think people are taking advantage of you. High in consideration but low in courage. |
Lose-Lose | If I fail you are going to fail with me. You’re low in both courage and consideration. |
Win by itself | It doesn't matter how others do as long as you do good. |
Scarcity Mentality | The mindset that there is only so much good to go around. Try to take all of the credit for themselves. |
Abundance Mentality | The mindset that there is plenty of good to go around. Everyone can succeed. Prefer to share recognition and place credit where credit is due. |
Win-Win or No Deal | The idea that we are all going to succeed or lets try something else. |
Win-Win | Your thought of if the team succeeds I succeed. High in both courage and consideration. |
Make Deposits in Other People’s Emotional Bank Accounts (8 kinds) | Do small things to help the relationship. Either emotionally or Physically. A deposit helps the relationship and a withdrawal hurts it. |
Do Small Acts of Kindness | A compliment would be a deposit and ignoring someone either purposely or accidentally would be a withdrawl. |
Keep Promises | Nothing hurts a relationship more than not being committed. If you say your going to do something make sure you keep your word |
Keep loyal | If someone trusts you enough to tell you information keep it confidential |
Set clear expectation | Be clear on what you expect and what you can give. Hold yourself and people accountable. |
Apologize | If your wrong don't be afraid to admit it! |
Give Feedback | Communication is key. It takes two people to communicate. |
Foregive | Ties into apologizing if someone makes a mistake be understanding. |