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Habit 4 Study Guide
Term | Definition |
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Win-Lose | Being high on courage but low in consideration. |
Lose-Win | Bein low in courage but high in consideration |
Lose-lose | Having a revenge mentality. "If I'm going down, I'll drag you down with me!" |
Win-win/no deal | Having a perfect balance of courage and consideration. |
Emotional Bank Account Deposits | Doing something that helps a relationship or lifts up another person. |
What is a deposit for the other person? | You have to find out what a deposit is for the other person. What you consider a deposit could be a withdraw for the other person. |
Small acts of kindness | Small acts of kindness let others know you are open to friendship. |
Keeping promises | Committing to promises is important to maintaining a good EBA |
Keeping confidences | When someone tells you something in confidence keep it private. |
Being loyal to the absent | Gossiping about other people will make you untrustworthy. Lift people up instead of breaking them down. |
Set clear expectations | Make sure to set clear expectations and follow through on them. Don't make empty promises. |
Apologize | If you do something unkind apologize immediately. Only apologizing once the other person does withdraws from the EBA. |
Forgive | Treat others the way you want to be treated. Forgive and forget and make sure you don't hold mistakes over someone else's head. |